Web based (microsoft) tool: https://www.testexchangeconnectivity.com/
Downloadable program: https://store.accessmylan.com/main/diagnostic-tools
If you are having problems getting an Iphone to sync to Exchange 2003 read this:
http://www.it-eye.co.uk/faqs/readQuestion.php?qid=1
I had major problems with a SBS 2003 setup and the above all helped.